I’ve had my profile off and on one of those online dating sites searching for that one significant other in my life. As of late, I’m feeling some despair, and decided to take a step back and ponder the whole dating scene.
The thought of online dating made me a little apprehensive until my dentist shared that’s how she met her husband a few years ago. So I thought, let’s give it a whirl. Came up with a nice picture, wrote an account of myself and what I was looking for. Soon, I began corresponding with lots of men that lived in my area.
Wisdom can kick in at just about any age, to be fair; it can also leave us at any age. We all wish to be wise in our pursuits yet the truth is our intelligence is at odds with our sexual drive. No one alive who is not a virgin can honestly say that they have not given into their sex drive and left their mind at times.
There is no reason to believe that we should be really ashamed of ourselves if that has happened, but what about those that it only happened once and that was enough to destroy their life? Dating promiscuity is like playing Russian roulette. You have been given a revolver with only one round loaded in the chamber and you keep pointing it at your head and pulling the trigger every time you remove your clothing.
Society today, much like the Roman Empire, pressures people to be very promiscuous. The problem is that our society is not structured around rampant promiscuity. Our American society is built around the time-honored tradition of the family unit. Values such as faithfulness and friendship, the real meanings of fatherhood and motherhood are being systematically erased from our culture at the hands of what? Sexual promiscuity.
The effects of promiscuity trickle into our lives in various ways … how does this affect our children? How does this affect our economy? What kind of a future are we investing in? The biggest moneymaker in American society is the oil industry, do you know what’s number two? Yes you guessed it, sexual entertainment. The adult entertainment industry is not just number two here, it is very worldwide. Pornographic films are really a multibillion-dollar industry. This is followed by adult dance clubs and then it is prostitution. The sad thing about this industry, like any other, the poor men and women in the trenches doing all the hard work, (insert laugh here) are not the ones getting rich from this. The poor men and women doing all the work are just another set of persons giving into their sex drives. How totally sad is that?
The third biggest money maker in America is the pharmaceutical industry. Have you noticed all of the new drug therapy commercials that are cropping up on TV? STD’s are spreading through this country in huge epidemic proportions. Herpes, genital warts, new strains of gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, HPV, hepatitis B and Aids are all on the rise. 65 million people in the U.S. have contracted these fun little diseases to our culture. (There are only 280 million of us) 1 in 4 of us have genital herpes and more than 80 percent of us don’t even know it. These numbers come from the CDC if you wish to confirm this, I must say I was really shocked. With all these commercials about the new treatments for STD’s, I guess most of us are beginning to think promiscuity is a normal thing today.
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This is a great essay and I would agree with it for the most part. BUT you have to be very careful — a lot of the men on the dating sites (and perhaps women) are there BECAUSE they are promiscuous. Really take a long time to get to know them…one fellow (this is only one example among a few) was dating me, telling me to stop dating other men and that we were exclusive…all the while he was on the dating web-site DAILY. To add insult to injury he claimed to be separated from his spouse and getting divorced at the end of the summer. I found out soon that he was not separated, had filed no paperwork, and was simply living apart from his spouse. There was no possible way he would have been divorced within a 6 week time-frame. Luckily we dated for only a week or two — but I was communicating with him for about a month before that…so again, just like any other place you meet people — and perhaps more so than if you meet through friends — take your time getting to know someone. You might meet a really great guy (I met a few friends so far) but you will run into a few jerks.